Dignity, rites of passage, manners and good choices
Dignity, rites of passage, manners, assertiveness and good choices. Read one part at a time and tap “I know this”. Then test yourself in the quiz.
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Good manners
| Situation | Good manners |
|---|---|
| Greeting an adult | “Good morning, Mrs Dlamini” |
| At the dinner table | Chew with your mouth closed and wait your turn |
| A gogo gets into a full taxi or bus | Stand up and offer your seat |
| You borrow a friend’s book | Look after it and return it in good condition |
| A friend disagrees with you | Listen and accept that people think differently |
Compliments build others’ confidence and friendships. Many cultures celebrate a birth with a naming ceremony to welcome the child into family and community.

Good choices
- Conflict often starts with misunderstandings and not listening. Calm down first and talk about the problem. Last swing? Take turns: five minutes each.
- A mean comment online: don’t share it; report it and tell a trusted adult.
- Feeling left out? Talk to someone you trust and join other activities.
- A pet needs food, clean water, shelter and care; a vet treats animals.
Important life stages in our cultures
A rite of passage is a ceremony that shows someone is starting a new stage of life. Every culture celebrates it in its own way, but the meaning is often the same.
| Stage | Examples and meaning |
|---|---|
| Birth | A naming ceremony; a baby is introduced to the family and ancestors. Meaning: the child is welcomed and belongs to the community. |
| Baptism or blessing | A baptism in church; other faiths have their own blessing ceremonies. Meaning: the child is taken into the faith community. |
| Coming of age | Initiation school, a 21st birthday with a key. Meaning: the young person takes on new responsibilities. |
| Wedding | A church or court wedding; lobola negotiations between two families. Meaning: two people, and their families, are joined. |
Rites of passage give people a sense of belonging, and bind families and communities together.
Dignity in different religions
In South Africa people of many religions live together. Even though their customs differ, they all teach that every person has dignity and must be treated with respect.
| Religion | What it teaches about dignity |
|---|---|
| Christianity | Every person is created in God’s image; “Love your neighbour as yourself.” |
| Islam | All people are equal before Allah; be good to your neighbours and give to those in need (zakat) |
| Hinduism | The same divine spirit lives in every person; the greeting “Namaste” honours it |
| Judaism | People are created in God’s image; care for the stranger and the poor |
| African traditional religion | Ubuntu: a person is a person through other people; respect for elders and the ancestors |
Remember this and test yourself
- Dignity: being worthy of honour and respect. Listen without mocking.
- A rite of passage marks an important stage in life: a naming ceremony, a wedding, a 21st key.
- Assertive: saying clearly and calmly what you think, so others respect your boundaries.
- Manners: please and thank you, and “I’m sorry” when you hurt someone.
- Unconditional love does not depend on what someone does or gives.
Write these points in your book. Read them again the night before the test.

The two magic words (please, thank you) and the third (sorry) open most doors.
Important words
First say what the word means, then turn the card over.
Match column A to column B
Tap a word in column A, then its meaning in column B. You can also start in column B.
True or false?
Read the question and the answer. Is the answer right? Tap True or False.
Now the real quiz!
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Follows CAPS for Grade 6 Life Skills. Always check your teacher’s notes and textbook too.

