Feelings and self-image
Self-image and self-confidence, handling feelings, empathy and resilience. Read one part at a time and tap “I know this”. Then test yourself in the quiz.
Know it already? Jump straight to the quiz
Feelings and actions
- Tell a friend you are upset with an I-message: “I feel hurt when you laugh at me.”
- Empathy: understanding how someone else feels; listen without judging.
- Take responsibility for a mistake: admit it and try to put it right.
- Nervous about a test? Prepare in good time and breathe deeply.

A strong self-image
- Know your strengths: they help you make choices. Don’t compare yourself with others; everyone has their own strengths.
- Say positive things to yourself: “I can get better if I keep trying.”
- A friend has lost confidence? Point out what they do well.
- Resilience: bouncing back after disappointment. Accept the feeling and try again.
- Your self-concept is shaped by your family, friends, teachers, the media and your own successes and failures. Kind words build it; constant put-downs damage it.
- An action plan for a positive self-concept: 1) choose one goal (for example, “I want to read more fluently”); 2) write down small steps; 3) set a date; 4) name who can help you; 5) check your progress and celebrate small successes.
Empathy and compassion
- Empathy: you understand how someone else feels. Compassion: you also want to help.
- A friend is sad or disappointed? Stay with them, listen, and ask how you can help.
Remember this and test yourself
- Your self-image is how you think and feel about yourself; a healthy self-image accepts yourself as you are.
- Self-confidence: believing you can do something. Notice your small successes.
- Being put down over and over damages a child’s self-image.
- A feeling is inside; an action is what you do. Angry? Walk away and breathe slowly.
- Feelings stay heavy for long? Talk to a parent or counsellor.
Write these points in your book. Read them again the night before the test.

A feeling is the weather inside you; you are the captain who decides how to sail.
Important words
First say what the word means, then turn the card over.
Match column A to column B
Tap a word in column A, then its meaning in column B. You can also start in column B.
True or false?
Read the question and the answer. Is the answer right? Tap True or False.
Now the real quiz!
The quiz has many more questions on this topic. Every question shows straight away whether you are right and explains why.
Take the quiz: Feelings and self-image- Read one part together and ask your child to tell it back in their own words.
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Follows CAPS for Grade 5 Life Skills. Always check your teacher’s notes and textbook too.

